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Therapy for Adulting: A unique period of change and becoming

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Riley’s story isn’t rare—it’s one of many quiet reckonings that come with adulthood. Because adulting isn’t just bills, meal prep, and choosing a health plan—it’s also quiet heartbreaks, identity shifts, and the slow work of becoming. Therapy helps you sort through the noise and find your footing.

Riley and the Quiet Breakup:


Riley didn’t throw plates. There was no screaming match, no dramatic exit. Just a slow, steady unraveling—like a sweater pulled loose by one thread. They’d been together for years, and when it ended, it wasn’t because of betrayal or cruelty. It was because they’d grown in different directions, and neither could pretend otherwise anymore. Now, Riley was navigating the aftershock. Friends were getting engaged, posting anniversary reels, planning baby showers. Riley was learning how to cook for one again. How to sleep on just one side of the bed. How to answer “How are you?” without flinching. There was grief, yes—but also guilt. For not feeling “devastated enough.” For wondering if they’d wasted time. For still loving parts of what was, even while letting it go. Therapy wasn’t about rushing into closure. It was about making space for the quiet heartbreaks—the ones that don’t get sympathy cards or dramatic montages. The ones that change you anyway.

**This vignette is fictional, inspired by real-life themes clients often bring into therapy.

What Clients Bring to Therapy During Early Adulthood

The Stuff That Doesn’t Fit Neatly Into a Box— The slow, sticky, often invisible work of growing up

The following struggles aren’t just “growing pains.” They’re real, lived experiences and psychotherapy can help you name what’s missing, what’s working, and what you want to build. 

  • Struggling to manage time when everything feels urgent and nothing feels fulfilling
  • Frustrated with one sided friendships 
  • Feeling paralyzed by choices and unsure how to trust your own decisions
  • Coping with dating fatigue, heartbreak, and the pressure to measure up
  • Renegotiating family roles and boundaries as you grow into adulthood
  • Managing financial stress and burnout while trying to build a stable future
  • Feeling stuck, lost, or behind—like everyone else got the syllabus and you didn’t
  • Navigating the overwhelm of starting college, your first real job or juggling a job you’re not sure you want.

Sure, you could try to handle everything solo (and maybe spiral in the process). Or you could talk to someone who actually gets it. A space that’s warm, real, and refreshingly non-judgy —where you can speak freely and start untangling whatever’s got you stuck.

If you’re done googling your feelings and ready for real support, I offer virtual psychotherapy across Maryland—no pressure, just space to start sorting things out.